Adoption and surrogacy toolkit

  • Step-by-step guidance to deal with adoption and surrogacy
  • Comply with the law
  • Includes all the relevant documents you need

This adoption and surrogacy toolkit guides you through the steps you need to take, from when a staff member announces that they are adopting or having a child via surrogacy, to when they return to work after adoption leave.

It includes a how-to guide as well as a pack of 14 relevant documents, including template letters and notices to arrange your staff member's adoption leave, time off for appointments, Keeping in Touch days, and return to work.

By using this toolkit you will protect your staff member's health and safety, maintain good workplace relations and reduce the risk of any legal action being taken against you.

Q&A

  • When should I use this toolkit?

    This adoption and surrogacy toolkit is always useful to have as part of your HR documentation.

    Your staff member/s can use the forms provided to notify you of their upcoming adoption or if they are having a child via surrogate, and their intention to take adoption leave. You and your staff member/s can use the how-to guide along with the rest of the documents to ensure you both take the correct steps during an adoption and/or surrogacy.

  • What does this toolkit cover?

    This adoption and surrogacy toolkit includes a how-to guide, which takes you through the steps you and your staff member need to take from when your staff member notifies you that they are adopting or having a child via surrogate, until they return to work. The how-to guide sets out who is responsible for which step, the time frames that need to be met, and which documents are needed to complete each task.

    Also included in this toolkit is:

    • documentation for a staff member to notify you of time off needed for appointments;
    • letters to arrange adoption leave and Keeping in Touch days; and
    • documentation to confirm your staff member's return to work.
  • Why do I need this toolkit?

    This adoption and surrogacy toolkit helps you to take all the right steps when a staff member is adopting or having a child via surrogacy.

    By using this toolkit, you'll ensure that you and your staff member comply with the law and take necessary steps within the right time frames. This protects your staff member's health and safety, reduces the risk of disputes and helps you to maintain good workplace relations.

  • Where can I find out more?

    For full guidance, see Pregnancy, maternity and adoption.

Documents in Toolkit

  • Adoption - Amended return date letter
  • Adoption - Employee notice of date of arrival
  • Adoption - Employee notice of intention to take adoption leave for overseas adoption
  • Adoption - Employee notice of overseas adoption approval
  • Adoption - Employee notice of UK adoption placement and intention to take adoption leave
  • Adoption - KIT day letter
  • Adoption arrangements letter
  • Employee declaration of eligibility for time off to attend antenatal appointments with surrogate
  • Employee declaration of eligibility for time off to attend pre-adoption appointments
  • Employee notice of date of childbirth
  • Employee notice of return from adoption leave
  • How-to guide: Adoption and surrogacy toolkit
  • Letter to employee confirming dates of return from adoption leave
  • Notice of updated return date from adoption leave
  • Surrogacy - Employee notice of intention to take adoption leave

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